Fear!

Over the last few days ,while keeping myself as busy as possible,taking care of all sorts of things that are scattered around me, the one thing I keep avoiding are the elephants in the room.I know they exist. I spend a great deal of time looking at them and worrying about them. What I have not done is acknowledged their existence particularly with those closest to me. It makes me feel incomplete . I am withholding and there by withdrawing from my friends and family. 
By the way, this is not a good thing!
I skulk around like the family pet who just pooped in the house.It does not feel good and quite honestly ,it's not fair to those who care about me.
So today,I deal with all of the adages.
We have nothing to fear but fear itself.
Feel the fear and do it anyway.
Everything you want is on the other side of fear.
Your largest fear carries your greatest growth.

There is a great anagram that I learned when becoming a coach.

False

 Events

      Appearing

Real   

Heck, the outcome may be exactly what it is I am fearing the most. So what!
The results are what they are and then we do with them what we will.
 It's just that simple.
Have a great day!