Where Did He Go?

A few months after I began this Journey, having experienced a modicum of success, I felt the need to begin dressing the part.
I traded in my sweat pants and over sized shirts for jeans, a dress shirt , and tie.
Now that I was feeling better about myself, it was time to let the world know it.
Tucking my shirt tails in and wearing a tie became a badge of honor.
For over 3 years. I would not leave the house without putting on a dress shirt and tie. 
There would be no more hiding behind the uniform of those who have given up.
When warmer weather rolled around last year and I found myself in the new position of having to drive a bus every day, I opted to revisit my choice of wardrobe.
My shirt and tie were replaced by golf shirts or knit shirts.
I added wearing shorts as an option as well.
It felt funny and a bit too casual for me but I eventually got used to it.
I knew that once the leaves started to turn and the air grew cooler I would once again become the Guy in the Tie.
That never happened.
Much to my surprise, I found a new look that carried me through all of the fall and winter.
Hoodies!
 Jeans, a pull over hoodie and a pair of sneakers became the new normal.
Besides looking cool, it was way more functional than wearing a dress shirt and tie.
It also covered up a multitude of sins (read pounds gained!).
Guess what?
Spring is here and it will soon be too warm to throw on a hoodie every morning. 
Here is where the rubber meets the road . 
You can't hide those extra pounds in a golf shirt!
I have become comfortable in this more casual style of dress. 
It's easier and freer than the buttoned up feeling of a button down and tie.
My vanity (yes I do have some) wants to make sure that I still look presentable,.......oh what the heck , good.
It's important to me to know that when I leave the house and in front of people I am not viewed as one of those fat guys.
You know the look. 
The B.O.B.s (Belly Over Belt ) guys.
The only spare tires I ever want to see should be in the trunk of my car.
For years I was either plus size,portly or big man.
Now they call my frame "athletic" (that makes me laugh!).
I do happen to look good in and like wearing jogging suits.
They are comfortable and functional for my life style (yes I have a lifestyle!)
As for the Guy in the Tie?
I think I'll drag him out every now and then as well.
After all, he does make a statement whenever he shows up!
Shavua Tov!