On the road again!
Heading down to South Jersey today. I'm actually okay with that,specifically since it was my decision and my game plan. Susan's parents aren't getting any younger. Their health is questionable at best. The 100 miles that separates us is a challenge,however that is no excuse for not staying connected. I make a conscious choice to make sure we get down there at least once a month. I know Susan appreciates it and I am sure her parents do as well.With the grooming shop open on Saturdays and my work week being the more traditional Monday through Friday,our treks south usually take place on Sundays.During the Summer , when the days were longer, a late Saturday visit,early evening for a quick dinner was an option. Now as Autumn is upon us and Winter soon to be creeping in,those Saturday opportunities are not as realistic.
Is this my favorite thing to do on a Sunday?
A two hour drive each way,with a two or three hour visit in between?
Not exactly what one would call fun.
Is it quality time for Susan and I? Not really.
Susan will read te newspaper on the way down and eventually nod off. On the way home , that nodding off happens a lot quicker. Still this is important. The visits are valuable in ways that just can't be measured empirically.
We bring in lunch which can be a challenge of it's own. My "healthier" eating style is as foreign the my in-laws as my kosher dietary choices.
It kind of narrows the field of choices . I actually enjoy the challenge of putting together a meal that every one will enjoy.Sam old same old doesn't work for me. ]There will be no Chinese take out.
I am not buying a pizza or picking up a bucket of chicken from KFC.
I make sure that the meal is attractive , appealing, nutritious, healthy and substantial.
Well Susan just said she is ready to hit the road so I guess we are on our way.
Have a great day and a great week!
Shavua Tov!
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