Managing My Expectations

"Ambition, fueled by compassion, wisdom and integrity, is a powerful force for good that will turn the wheels of industry and open the doors of opportunity for you and countless others."

Zig Ziglar

Just about every Sunday morning for the last three decades or more, I have coffee with my cousin. We use that time to catch up, check in and ponder what's next.Over the years we have incorporated walks in the park, trips to the gym and even some grocery shopping. The one constant has been the chat over a cup of coffee.Remarkably, there is always some nugget of insight that sticks with me from these conversations.Today was no different.While chatting about this that and the other thing today, in a very matter of fact way, the phrase "managing expectations" came up.

Fascinating!

Absolutely fascinating!

I should probably add this to my course curriculum for would be entrepreneurs.Actually, it applies to just about everyone, however, I happen to love working with the aforementioned group.

Mostly, I should probably use this in my personal life first. I actually use this quite a bit without realizing that I am doing it.

(ooops! Just looked at the clock.....gotta go drive the bus...I'll be back)

Okay. I'm back.

Thankfully stepping away from my desk actually brought some clarity to the concept of managing my expectations.Managing my expectations is completely different than lowering them.

Opportunity remains as it has always been.Limitless!

Expectations, specifically in the immediate moment, are more finite.

As Lao Tzu reminds us, "The Journey of a thousand miles MUST,begin with a single step."

I never want to lower my expectations. I still have and continue to pursue my BHAG's (Big Hairy Audacious Goals) .

Understanding that I will only achieve them by accomplishing the next step in the process is key to managing my expectations and ultimately determining my level of success.

Dreams will remain only dreams unless there is an action plan.

Once the steps of that plan are carefully laid out,any dream can become reality.

It just takes some effort. Effort which includes managing my expectations.

Shavua Tov!